To help you heal, may I suggest that you locate an experienced trauma therapist. They regularly help clients recover from situations like yours. Without judgment, they can help you process all that you have experienced—your recent loss of your brother and earlier challenges. Just Google EMDR International Association to find a qualified therapist in your area. You were traumatized so much by your mother and lack of parental love, that there is no way your brother or you could have ever had a chance to have a normal life. You tried, and did your best to create solace in each other out of the dirt you had to make it from.

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• I grieved before and now I was safe from his emotional abuse.
• I thought it was pretty weird when he came back a few weeks after her death.
• God bless her soul, and please help my MIL to wake up out of the darkness and treat others as she would be treated..
• Forgiving her might help you, as she was unable for whatever reason to give you the love and caring you so desired (and deserved!) – She was likely traumatized herself.

A month later i woke up and was watching a movie called the messenger where these people tell the parents of fallen soldier you son died ect. I was about halway threw the movie when my doorbell ran at 4 am. I should also say that prior to that i have a sense that i had to tell my brother i love him but because of the peacebond i couldnt. I looked out the door 2 civilian.

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We are here today, but what if tomorrow never comes. You come from the Third World ! You country is a disgusting and filthy place. Most people there live in poverty!

What time period has not been morally challenged? To suggest that past eras loved big city swing chicago beauty more than we seems a bit myopic. The 20th century gave us two world wars, mustard gas, and genocide along with whatever positive art forms.

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You needed us and you let us know but you had to change and you didn’t. You were’t willing to until you got info on your health and wondered why no one ever contacted you. And you were reaching out, you jut ran out of time. For what its worth, I love you and thank you for keeping me safe. My father died 12 years ago, and only now is my body allowing itself to grieve, because perhaps it has taken me this long to be “ready” to walk myself through.

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Even if it doesn’t make complete sense to you. But when else will you even need to make this kind of consideration for him? My ex wife of 25 years died suddenly. We had not talked in 4 years, and she was also estranged from our 2 adult daughters.

I knew him for over 20 years, since I was a kid. I loved him like he was my own brother. My sister and her kids moved in with my folks for the time being. I reach out to ask what I can do but the only reply from my folks is to please give them all space.

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If you believe in a higher power, I suggest you pray or ask for peace for yourself. Anyway, I am glad I found this site. I’ve been struggling with how I can fix it with her before she passes. My son is 12 and he sees the things she says/does to me, and I feel like the dysfunction will cycle for life. Thank you for your honesty, your comment is going to help people.

And when I did that, something released in me. The attachment to his life released. And I felt okay with it after that.